Wednesday, March 30, 2022

leftovers #3 - hi resolution (lessons)

Hi again, my last thought on this matter (I promise), but I did want to share one thing I learned and try to incorporate this lesson into my future thinking about resolutions. Despite my experience so far in 2022, I still think the best philosophy remains to implement good ideas immediately rather than waiting until next year. However, there are obvious strengths to the New Year's Resolution concept. It clearly worked out well for me to look at the start of a year as an opportunity to outline some personal development goals. So, what's the best thing to do next year?

I think sometimes there is a problem when you try to combine two concerns into one. You try to envision a complete solution that solves the big issue, but you never notice that the components each require their own separate remedy. Here, I think there are two types of self-improvement ideas that should be considered on separate terms. The first is what I'll call New Ideas, and for these I think the best approach is the one noted above - implement New Ideas immediately. The second is more like a reminder when you've drifted off the path. These may be a better fit for New Year's Resolutions. This is because if you are constantly doing self-checkups, you won't have much time left to live your life! However, it's still wise to have some moments for a quick assessment, just to ensure that you are staying true to your course.

The funny thing about all the sleep quality stuff I mentioned last week is that I had a similar moment years ago, when I was a sophomore in college. I emerged from the first semester deeply unhappy with myself and needed to make a change. I don't know how I ended up deciding to wake up earlier, but that's pretty much what happened, and I kept it up until graduation. I don't want to give too much credit to one detail from a decade and a half ago, but I think this change enabled me to get a lot more out of my college experience than I would have if I had stayed my original course. What I learned then was what I reminded myself of now - for me, six to seven in the morning was always a more productive hour than midnight to one.

In a sense, my New Year's Resolution about sleep was more of a return to a successful routine rather than a bright New Idea for 2022. There is no logical time to make these self-assessments and decide if certain routines need to be restored, so to me it might as well be January 1. Why not? If it's going to be a once-yearly process, might as well join everyone else and get in on the New Year's party.